Marriage, as it was, as it is, and as it should be : a plea for reform / by Annie Besant.

  • Besant, Annie, 1847-1933.
Date:
1882
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Licence: Public Domain Mark

Credit: Marriage, as it was, as it is, and as it should be : a plea for reform / by Annie Besant. Source: Wellcome Collection.

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    I “As Ari-Stotle long since remarked, among savages women ami slaves hold the same rank. Women are bought primarily as slaves, to drudge and toil for their masters, whilst their function as wives is secondary and subordinate. It is more right to say of polygamous people that their slaves are also their wives, than to say that their wives are slaves. They are purchased as slaves, they work as slaves, and they live as slaves. ‘The history of uncultivated nations,’ it has been said, ‘ uniformly represents the women as in a state of abject slavery, from which they slowly emerge as civilisation advances.’ In Canada a strap, a kettle, and a faggot are placed in the new bride’s cabin, to indicate that it will be henceforth her duty to carry burdens, dress food, and ])rocure wood for her husband. In Circassia it is the women who till and manure the ground, and in parts of China they follow the plough. A Moorish wife digs and sows and reaps the corn, and an Arabian wife feeds and cleans and saddles her master’s horse. Indeed, the sole business of Bedouin wives is to cook and work, and jierform all the menial offices connected with tent-life. . . . P'rom the absolute power of a savage over his slaves flow all those rights over a woman from which the marital rights of our own time are the genealogical descendants. ... A trace of it [purchase] is found in the following customs of old English law :—The woman at the church-door was given of her father, or some other man of the next of her kin, into the hands of her husband, and he laid down gold and silver for her upon the book, as though he did buy her.’ ” This custom is still maintained in the Church ritual; the priest asks : “ Who giveth this woman to be married to this man ?” and when the man gives the ring to the priest, he gives money with it, receiving back the ring to give the woman, but the money remaining, a survival of the time when wives were literally bought. By the old Roman laws, the married woman had no per- sonal rights; she was but the head slave in her husband’s house, absolutely subject in all things to her lord. As the Romans became civilised, these disabilities were gradually removed. It is important to remember these facts, as these are the origin of oui own marriage laws, and our common law really grows out of them. One other j)oint must be noticed, before dealing imme- diately with the English marriage laws, and that is the influence exerted over them by ecclesiastical Christianity