Don't hold my head down / Lucy-Anne Holmes.

In her mid-thirties, Lucy-Anne Holmes realised that something was missing. When it came to sex she still felt like a novice: she lacked confidence and felt incapable of asking for what she wanted. But when she looked for a how-to guide or a workshop, she found that everything she Googled was geared towards the male gaze rather than women's pleasure. So, she made a list of the things she'd like to try -- among them slow sex, ejaculation, different types of orgasm, being sexual with other women, BDSM, sex parties and making porn -- and set out on a journey of discovery. This is the book that Lucy wanted to read in the first place; a frank, eye-opening and inspiring account of the search for better sex that shares her tips, revelations, failures and triumphs.